Parenthood
Firefighter who found infant in Safe Haven Baby Box decides to step up in a big way
“I picked her up and held her. We locked eyes, and that was it."
Michael Dabu
06.29.23

Everything happens for a good reason and that’s exactly what a Florida firefighter realized when he responded to a call of duty.

In a heartwarming story, a dedicated firefighter from Florida who decided to hide his and his family’s identity fulfilled his dream of becoming a parent after a decade of longing.

What makes this story even more extraordinary is that his wish came true while he was on duty.

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The incident happened on January 2, 2023, when a baby girl was left at a Safe Haven Baby Box located at the MLK First Responder Campus in Ocala, which is approximately 80 miles northwest of Orlando.

What exactly is a “Safe Haven Baby Box”?

Safe haven laws, also known as a baby safe haven or safe abandonment laws, are legal measures implemented in many U.S. states to allow parents to safely surrender their newborn infants to designated locations without fear of prosecution or legal consequences. These laws aim to prevent infant abandonment and ensure the well-being of the child.

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Then, the first-ever baby surrender in Florida happened.

At 2 A.M., an alarm alerted the firefighter while most of the station was fast asleep, he and another Ocala Fire Rescue employee quickly responded to investigate the situation.

The firefighter vividly recalls the moment he opened the box, revealing a precious baby girl dressed in a pink beanie and a onesie. She was wrapped in a matching blanket, with a pink bottle placed beside her.

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His true calling

Instantly, he knew deep in his heart that he wanted to raise this little girl as his own. In an email, he shared his overwhelming emotions, “When I walked into the front office where the box is located, I opened it and saw my beautiful daughter lying in it.”

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The Safe Haven Baby Box program spans across various states, including Indiana, Kentucky, Arkansas, Florida, New Mexico, North Carolina, Tennessee, Pennsylvania, and Arizona. The program establishes these boxes outside fire departments and emergency response buildings, equipped with silent alarms, allowing individuals to leave babies “no questions asked,” as stated on the program’s official website.

Once the alarm sounded, the firefighter carefully picked up the child and carried her to the fire station. Urging his colleague to gather the rest of the crew, they sought to determine whether the baby required immediate medical attention.

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Thankfully, the baby appeared calm and untroubled.

Love at first sight

It wasn’t until he gently placed her on a table for a medical examination that she showed signs of discomfort. Reacting swiftly, he cradled her in his arms again until the ambulance arrived to transport her to the hospital. At that moment, their eyes met, forging an unbreakable bond.

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“I instantly fell in love with her,” he confessed. “As soon as she locked eyes with me, she instantly stopped crying, and she didn’t stop looking at me until I delivered her to the emergency room.”

Turns out, for a decade, the firefighter and his wife had been striving to conceive a child, undergoing fertility treatments and exploring adoption possibilities. Originally, he had planned to leave his contact information for the ambulance crew, but his fellow firefighters urged him to accompany the surrendered infant to the hospital.

At the medical facility, doctors recommended that he also write a note explaining the circumstances.

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New parents?

After the baby girl had been admitted to the hospital, he called his wife, their voices trembling with overwhelming emotions. They cautiously contained their excitement, fearing that their hopes might be shattered. His wife contacted the hospital’s case worker, and an emergency room doctor personally delivered his note to the hospital social worker.

The following day, as her husband was at the scene of a fire, the wife received a phone call informing her that they would eventually be able to take the child home. However, before doing so, they needed to complete several tasks, including finding a pediatrician, attending safety classes, hiring a lawyer, and, last but not least, choosing a name for their daughter.

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With only an hour to spare, the wife racked her brain to come up with a name, as her husband remained occupied with his firefighting duties. She sent him a series of names via text, and upon reviewing them, he had a sudden inspiration and proposed the name, Zoey.

New parents, new life, new beginning!

In due time, when Zoey grows older, her parents intend to explain her adoption story to her. Should she express a desire to explore her biological family, they will fully support her in her quest for knowledge.

The firefighter remains unaware of any details regarding Zoey’s biological parents. Nevertheless, his wife conveyed her gratitude for the existence of the Safe Haven Baby Box, expressing deep admiration for Zoey’s birth mother and assuring her that their beloved daughter is thriving.

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