Parenthood
Little boy and girl forgotten by their parents meet a single dad who wants to adopt them
At just 7 and 8 years old the kids found themselves with parents that no longer wanted them.
Sasha Alonzo
10.17.23

Meet Peter Mutabazi, a remarkable single Black dad who has already fostered 36 children.

And guess what?

Heโ€™s just added two more to his loving family!

After adopting 17-year-old Anthony Mutabazi in 2019, Peter recently welcomed 8-year-old Isabella and 7-year-old Luke into his home.

โ€œItโ€™s absolutely a joy,โ€ the 49-year-old dad shares with PEOPLE. โ€œI can be their forever home.โ€

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

Peter is not just any dad; heโ€™s a beacon of inspiration.

Through his Instagram handle, @fosterdadflipper, he shares his journey as a foster dad.

His message?

Families donโ€™t need to share the same skin color.

He hopes to inspire other men to step up and be active, loving fathers.

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

But Peterโ€™s mission doesnโ€™t stop there.

Heโ€™s deeply committed to reuniting foster children with their biological parents.

โ€œI am a foster parent that will always, always fight for the bio parent to have their kids back,โ€ he passionately states.

Yet, he assures his foster kids that if they canโ€™t return to their biological families, his home is theirs forever.

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

Flashback to May 2020: Brenlynn, a 5-year-old girl, and Koleman, a 4-year-old boy, arrived at Peterโ€™s North Carolina residence.

These children, affected by their parentsโ€™ drug-related neglect, were initially meant to stay with Peter for just four months.

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

However, as months rolled on, their biological parents became distant, ceasing visits and calls.

Peter recalls, โ€œIโ€™m a Black guy, they are white kids. Theyโ€™re looking for a family member. But that never happened. No one took them in, no one claimed them.โ€

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

By April 2023, the biological parentsโ€™ rights were terminated.

This was a bittersweet moment for Peter.

โ€œThatโ€™s when I knew that now, I can finally be their dad,โ€ he reflects.

Yet, the weight of the childrenโ€™s loss was palpable.

โ€œI cried all day,โ€ he admits. โ€œThe kids literally have a parent they dreamt could come back for them. But theyโ€™ve just given up. Itโ€™s a loss. I felt the loss for them.โ€

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A few months later, Peter had a heart-to-heart with the kids.

He gently explained that their biological parents wouldnโ€™t return but reassured them of their permanent place in his heart and home.

Describing his newly adopted son, Peter says Luke is โ€œkind and sweetโ€ with a love for drawing.

As for Isabella, sheโ€™s a lively girl who enjoys playing outdoors and aspires to be a veterinarian.

โ€œSheโ€™s the boss of the house,โ€ Peter chuckles.

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

Peterโ€™s Instagram is a window into his world.

To protect their identities, he uses pseudonyms for his foster kids and has them sport sunglasses.

Currently, โ€œBellaโ€, a 2-year-old, is one of the foster children in his home.

Additionally, he recently welcomed two refugee siblings from Senegal, emphasizing, โ€œThey have a mom who loves them.โ€

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Foster Dad Flipper - Instagram

Peterโ€™s mission is clear: to provide a loving, stable home for children, regardless of their skin color.

โ€œTheyโ€™re white, Iโ€™m Black, but somehow we can still provide that normalcy and what every child needs: A family,โ€ he says.

Having penned a book titled โ€œNow I Am Knownโ€ and founded a charity, Peterโ€™s dedication to foster children is unwavering.

His hope for the future?

To foster and adopt even more children.

โ€œThereโ€™s so many kids that need a home,โ€ he says. โ€œIf I can help two more, Iโ€™ll be more than happy.โ€

Learn more about Peterโ€™s own harrowing story and when he adopted his first child, Anthony, in the video below.

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